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This is a compilation of questions we are frequently asked. If you don't
see an answer to a question you have, please
us.
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Q. If I want to lose weight, would I be wasting a
lot of money on a garment that I may not fit into for long, or does the
corset adjust down in size?
A. This is a good question. Here are your
answers:
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We ask you to update your horizontal
measurements right before
the corset is cut (they take from 1 to 6 months or more to produce
without rush fees, due to the high demand and few qualified corset
makers in the world.), so that your final corset is as nearly
perfect as we can make it, and will provide you at least reasonable
waist reduction for many years.
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Eventually, your first corset may become comfortable as you get
used to it, or even lose waistline inches, and then you can turn
that corset into a maintenance or a sleep corset, or simply use it
as a good, firm foundation that provides back support and control,
even if there is no substantial waist reduction. At that point you
might wish to order your next-sized down custom corset to continue
training. You may even write us for permission to send yours back
for us to consign and help you sell, or sell it on Ebay. In some
circumstances, we can cut out about 1-1.5" in the waistline (from
$75-100 expense for that service) and return it to you for many more
years of wear.
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When you update your measurements (we tell you when to do so),
we together decide how much of a gap to make in the back.
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Most people can easily lace down 1.5-3" and wear the corset for
4-8 hours rather easily. More will take time, as will properly
seasoning the corset so you do not strain and damage the fabric and
front busk. Thus, we decide how MUCH more we need of a gap to ensure
that as you lose weight and learn to lace down more over time, there
is still a gap to pull closed in back.
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Remember. your goal in waist training should be to close the gap
in back fully then wear the corset for hours and hours at a
time--comfortably. It is not impressive nor effective for
permanent body reshaping or weight loss, to lace down quickly (in
ten minutes for example) and wear it only for ten minutes then have
to loosen or take off your corset.

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If the gap is too wide
(see photo right), the bones at the waistline in back could
twist in the casings and bend outward, digging into your tender
waistline in a very uncomfortable, even painful way and you will
have to loosen or take off your corset. The proper gap is a
judgment call based upon the facts you provide your corset maker,
and your corset makers long experience.
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Even so, it is virtually impossible to tell, especially long
distance, how "squishy" any particular individual may be, or how
well or poorly she/he will take to corseting and waist restriction.
That is a matter also, of genetics. For example, some people with a
45" waistline are very squishy and can easily lace down, and some
are very firm and cannot lace down easily. You should tell us if you
are squishy or firm at the waistline when you place your order.
Sometimes you and we exercise our best judgment about how much gap
to put in the back, and you still find you can rather easily and
quickly close down your first corset more than anticipated;
sometimes it is the opposite. Personal traits and corseting
reactions cannot be readily judged long distance. Even if we can see
you personally and palpate your waistline muscles, sometimes we
cannot accurate predict what will actually happen to your
individual, flexible and malleable torso.
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Please note. Producing corsets and waist training are not
matters of hard science or easy prediction, but rather a melding of
art, science, your genetics, corset-making and waist-training
experience of your corset business advisor, and luck.
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Q. I have a 30" snug natural waist. I
was told by another corset business that
I should order a "24" corset. I don't
know what that means. Since I'm ordering
your Sleep Corset, I would like a 24".
Is there a problem with that?
A. We
advertise the Sleep Corset as
appropriate for a maximum waist
reduction of 4" when the corset closes
down in back, based on our field-testing
of this style and quality compared to
our high quality standards for ROMANTASY
corsetry. Thus, your waist will reduce
to 26" when you lace closed in back. You
will need to decide if that is
sufficient for your individual purposes,
or if perhaps a fully custom, four
layer, tight-lacing corset may better
suit your needs.
However, your question raises an
important underlying issue that each
corset client must understand if they
decide to "go into" corseting and add to
their corset wardrobe a variety of
styles made by a variety of corsetieres
over time. We do hope you come to
ROMANTASY for all your corset orders
because it is precisely our
"education-first-then-sale-second"
approach, plus an enormous range of real
choices we offer for corsetry that will
ensure that you invest wisely and well
in the precise corset and size and waist
reduction that fits your individual
priorities and figure needs best.
Education (both in words and images)
first rather than last, will also help
you develop realistic expectations
regarding quality issues such as
durability and comfort of that style,
and fit issues on your individual body,
not just apply a general rule or general
expectation to all corset styles and all
corsetieres, where such generalities
will clearly not fit.
If you feel you are a true corset
enthusiast, intend to add corsets to
your wardrobe over time, and desire to
avoid wasting money on what might not
work for you, then it is critical to
understand that each corsetiere and
corset expert has his or her own 'take'
on corsetry in general, desirable amount
of waist reduction when their specific
style of corset closes in back compared
to the quality they wish to represent,
and what they know about your individual
ability to tolerate and enjoy lacing
down. Of course, you are not "required"
to ever close a corset in back, however
an exceedingly wide gap will not serve
you well as the corset will then tend to
torque and twist on the body. So most
likely when any corset is seasoned, you
will be looking for a 2-4" gap in back
after lacing down to your level of
comfort for the day.
Without meeting you and without further
detailed information about who your
corsetiere was, plus the corset style
and their specific constructions
details, I cannot respond further but
only tell you what we advertise and have
field tested for our Sleep Corset in
which you are interested. In sum, what
you "should order" depends on a lot of
factors we have set forth for our
clients to consider on our website here:
20 Questions. At ROMANTASY we are
always happy to discuss your further
individual issues and concerns before
you purchase your next corset from
ROMANTASY!
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Q. Why do you work with more than one corsetmaker, and how should I
go about choosing among
them?
A. To provide the best possible
service to corset enthusiast clients, I decided in 1990 to organize my
corset business around a team concept. Rather than learn to hone my
personal corset-making and limited seamstress skills, I decided to
purchase and wear many custom corsets to personally feel and see their
differences, study, design, and embellish corsets, plus advise clients
how to design their own corset to meet their individual needs, desires,
and budget. I then searched the world, and continue to search in every
possible location, for corsetmakers with a certain level of experience
in making tight-lacing, high quality, well-fitting custom corsetry. Feel
free to recommend anyone for our consideration to become a new team
member!
Over time, we have worked with from four to ten or more, qualified
corsetieres, each specializing in particular corset styles, fabrics,
construction techniques, and particular strengths in terms of quality,
waistline silhouette, and price points. Sometimes, our wonderful
corsetmakers move on (please view
BR Creations, and
True Grace corsets). However, when you choose ROMANTASY for your
corset, you may be assured that we will always have a team whose members
can readily meet your individual needs, and we will not force you to
accept one maker, or one style corset only.
As of 2006, ROMANTASY works with four team members: Sheri, Sue, Sharon,
and Raven. We have additional corsetieres and seamstresses on staff to
provide unique styles or other garments such as our
Training Belts, the man's
CorVest,
and custom skirts, costumes, wedding gowns, posture collars, gloves,
purses, and other fashion items to coordinate with your corset.
ROMANTASY also offers some private-label corsets, that are excellently
and reasonably priced, but are readymade and not custom. You can review
the ROMANTASY corsets by clicking
here.
It is important to note, that in our many years in this specialty
business, it has been incredibly difficult to finding qualified
corsetieres for our team approach. Many claim to be corsetieres making
tight-lacing corsets, but time and again I examine their work, or see
how they relate to projects, clients, and deadlines, and they fall short
of my expectations and strict quality standards. Our present team
members are all excellent and meet my business standards.
The best way for you to determine whom you might wish to make your
corset, is to first, review our below comments, and second, review each
maker's pages. On that
page, please find a photo of a client wearing her or his corset, one
who is built like you, and observe how the corset makes the waistline
and silhouette look, plus the technical features or each corset, and the
cost mentioned at the bottom of each corsetiere's individual webpage.
You will likely then be able to zero in on your next corsetmaker, and
corset style. We are here to help you do just that and ensure that you
are choosing wisely and investing well in a long-lasting corset.
Although it is difficult to explain each and every nuance and difference
of one maker from another, or one style from another, the
below-information should help:
All corsetmakers make tight-lacing quality corsets. All are extremely
creative and will entertain requests for specialty patterning and
embellishments, so please don't hesitate to ask. You may wish to review
our initial comments on what might be the
best
style corset for you.
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Q. I've
purchased corsets before and they squish
out flesh over the top and under the
bottom edges. How can a custom corset
avoid that?
A.
Excellent
question and common problem with
store-bought or readymade corsets, or
even with a custom corsets made from
incorrect measurements. The simple
answer is: Accurate measurements are the
key to ensuring the best fit possible
and avoiding this unsightly and
uncomfortable problem. For example, if
you measure horizontally around your rib
cage and let the tape measure drop in
back (below a lady's bra strap, for
example), then the measurement may be
too narrow for your actual rib cage and
an underbust corset may be too tight at
the top edge, causing flesh to possibly
squish out. You should always have
someone else measure you, because they
can hold the tape up in the back to get
a true rib cage measurements. Also, you
should relax your shoulders and take the
ribcage measurement three times, then
average those three out to reach the
best approximation.
For the top
edge of an overbust corset, only an
interim "cotton muslin" fitting can
ensure the very best fit. It is very
difficult to fit the bosom without such
a muslin fitting, and we simply will not
provide that style without this step.
Again you should rather generously
measure and report the high bust (under
the armpits), around the bosom in a bra,
and then vertically up to as high as you
can comfortably tolerate under your
arms, in order to support the side of
the bosom and not squish it out from
over the bust cup of the corset. As
another example, if you measure your
pelvis horizontally but too high on your
hip and not directly over the pelvic
saddle hip bone, then you might measure
too tightly and the bottom edge of the
corset may be too tight. It then might
pinch the hip skin and possibly cause
numbness running down from the anterior
femoral nerve, or squish out flesh from
under the bottom edge of the corset. We
sometimes recommend that full-figure
clients consider investing in the
interim cotton muslin (included by
overbust styles but not for underbust
styles) even for underbust corset
styles, in order to double check how
their flesh will move within the corset,
and the precise lower edge shape they
desire for best tummy control, before
going to the final version.
Q. Does
waist training last and how long does it
take? I want to know what I am getting
myself into. I don't want to have to
wear a corset every day after reaching
my goals.
A.
That depends. My waist-training coaching
students seen on this page, and in my
book on the topic,
Corset Magic, have permanently
lost weight and waistline inches:
Waist Training Workshop
But does it last? No -- if you
immediately stop training and pig out on
Krispy Kremes. We all know that! Yes
-- if you corset about 2-3 days per
week ("maintenance corseting") and
maintain the moderate lifestyle changes
proposed in my book.
One entire chapter in my book is devoted
to answering your question. More answers
can be found in my former
newsletters
and on this page.
If you read about and view students
of my coaching program, you will see all
that changes shown in weight and
waistline-inch reduction happened to
each in three months of about
six-day-per-week of snug, long corset
wear coupled with other moderately
challenging program elements including
proper nutrition and waist-specific
exercises.
Waist training is not for those in a
hurry or those who want immediate, easy
results. For that, you should perhaps
pursue (expensive and risky) liposuction
and other cosmetic surgery. Even such
quick fixes rarely work in the long run;
I have plenty of liposuction patients
come to me after liposuction for corset
waist-training to create a noteworthy
waistline and make lasting change.
Liposuction seems only or best to
flatten the lower belly but do little to
sculpt out the side of the waistline.
There is even some recent scientific
evidence that by removing subcutaneous
fat through lipo, this may accelerate
growth of deeper layer visceral fat, the
more dangerous level of fat that
surrounds and may squeeze the organs
such as heart and liver.

In November 2007 we introduced
"Sweet Dreams", a fully custom corset
by team member Jade, seen right. It is
so comfortable from our test wearings
that we feel it is perfect for
maintenance corseting two to four days
per week after formal waist training.
Produced in a single layer of strong
100% cotton coutil with single outer
bone casings and steel boning, and waist
tape, it is a surprisingly excellent
value at $150-170 depending on waist
size (available in white, black, pink or
ecru cotton coutil with black or white
outer bone casings, your choice!). This
nifty and cute corset is extremely
light-weight and therefore suitable for
wear as foundation under clothing or as
a sleep corset. It is also suitable for
post-lipo support and for mothers after
childbirth to keep steady pressure on
the torso as they train back to
pre-childbirth weight. We wear ours out
as a fashion garment as well, when we
don't want the stiffer feeling of a
custom corset with four layers and
double steel boning.
Q. What is a "man's" corset?
A.
Good question! As with many other terms in common use in the
corset world, there is no single rigid or technical definition, no
matter what is currently being advertised as a "man's corset" on any
other website you may have visited. What we note is that most "manly
men" prefer the following options in their corset design: (1) a
U-silhouette when seen face forward, underbust style (rather than a
dramatic wasp or hourglass silhouette, or an overbust style), (2) more
functional fabrics (such as cotton which is possibly hand-washable with
proper approach and care) and neutral colors (such as black, ivory, or
beige cotton), (3) a straighter top and bottom edge shape in both front
and back (rather than points in the center front), and, sometimes (4) a
shorter "cincher" style corset whose upper edge falls below the man's
wide rib cage (rather than coming up fully on the chest or upper torso
to where a lady's bra underwire would sit). We do not necessarily concur
with some corsetmakers we know who advise men to order these shorter
"cincher" style corsets, since they seem to permit a protruding rib cage
to pop even more noticeably outward. However, if this is the image you
desire when corseted, then by all means request the silhouette, shape,
and height of custom corset that suits your individual needs and
preferences.
Transgender men (MTFs) usually, but not always of course, prefer quite
the opposite to the typical "man's corset," that is, one or all of the
following: the hourglass silhouette when seen face-forward, and possibly
the straight-rib silhouette to bring in the upper rib cage and make is
less noticeable, more elegant and glamorous fabrics and designs
including lace ruffles and braid trims, full underbust Victorians (high
hips on the side which maximizes the derriere, rather than the longline
Edwardian which minimizes the derriere), and even overbust styles into
which they can insert silicon enhancements as our moderately-endowed
ladies do, too.
Q. I currently have a 28" waist, and would like to return to my
pre-children size of 26". I'm already at my pre-pregnancy weight, but I
think my ribs have been pushed out, and I have that little pooch on my
lower abdomen. How long do you think it would take if I only wore it
during the day?
A. This is a tough question to answer with precision. Conversion of
the typical temporary 1-3" immediate and comfy waist reduction with a
first corset, into permanent change, depends on several key factors,
including: (1) your genetics, (2) your history with dieting and weight
loss, (3) your motivation, and (4) your lifestyle and whether it permits
you to adopt all six elements of our waist-training program that over
400 people interviewed, have confirmed has worked for them. You may
visit our coaching program webpage located under our red "Waist
Training" button, to view real life students who have achieved from 2 to
5" waistline reduction, and from 3 to 50 pounds of weight loss in only
three months of six-days-per-week waist training. These students were
obviously devoted to the process and motivated to follow through with
our suggestions. The great majority of them also have kept off the
weight, or only put back on 10% or less, a year to three or four after
finishing the program. Obviously for them as for you, some basic
lifestyle changes must continue to be implemented, and most likely some
periods of "reminder" or "maintenance" corseting must occur to reinforce
the healthy new habits our students learn from devoted, short-term waist
training. We all know that reaching our goals, taking off our corsets,
then pigging out on Krispy Kremes will work only to put that weight all
right back on, and usually more weight than we had before! See photos of our nifty "Sweet Dreams"
sleep and maintenance corset and
discussion about this inexpensive, high
quality style in answer to question 4
above.
Q. I was wondering if training your waist at a young-ish age is
easier than at an older age? I'm 16 (going on 17) and I've been looking
into corset training for years.
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A.
You have asked an important question, one that has an easy
factual answer: Yes.
Fashion historians say that there were at least two approaches to
corseting the young during Victorian times. One approach put girls into
structured unboned, or lightly-boned, bodices, then later, into boned
corsets, starting at the age of eight or ten. The other approach did not
corset the young lady until she reached mid- to late-teens. We can
speculate that it was the latter group of girls who most complained and
inveigled against corsets and tight-lacing, because their bones were
more formed at that time and their bodies less accustomed to
restriction, than were the younger corseted children. Also likely is
that the younger group enjoyed much smaller waistline dimensions
throughout their corseting practices.
You have not asked *a much more crucial question* that must be addressed
before you, or anyone, jumps into serious waist-training or remarkable
waist reduction, even on a temporary basis. And that question is, "at my
age of 16 is it HEALTHY for me to waist train?"
If you-- like Romantasy--
value and believe that
health comes first, then you
will avoid serious waist
training now, and only wear
corsets with a 2-3"
temporary reduction, and
from time to time as fashion
garments. The reason? Women's bones do not complete growth until age 20
and older! If you begin to restrict their growth now, you increase your
risk of osteoporosis in your later years, something you may not
appreciate now, but you will when you reach the post-menopause stage of
your life. For the
above reasons, we will not accept a
student into our formal ROMANTASY Waist
Training Coaching Program until she is
at least 21 years old. On rare
occasions, after an email or telephone
exchange with a young caller, we will
make a custom corset with a moderate
waist reduction potential. However, we
must be convinced that this client
shares our priority of health first. We
must also be convinced that she has
common sense, and agrees to exercise it
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Q. When a skirt or dress is worn under a corset, should it have a
waist band in the traditional sense, or should it be made to fit lower
down on the top of the hip bone?
A. Either one, the latter being called a "dropped waist
skirt." However, you must consider the nature of the waist band.
Sometimes a "normal" waist band in a readymade skirt made to encircle
your normal, unreduced waist size, will crinkle and gather as you lace a
corset down on top of the skirt, since the skirt is made to fit your
normal waist size, and not your reduced waist size. Sometimes gathered
skirts or drawstrings at the top edge work far better because the size
will reduce according to how far you lace down you corset. Pencil slim
skirts never seem to work well with a corset, unless you are pencil thin
with no tummy! A soft fabric A-line skirt will work well with a corset,
and often any gathers as you lace down will not be that disruptive to
your over all "look," however, crisper fabrics (heavy satins) don't work
well with a corset, unless you have the waistline tailored down to your
reduced waist size (at least 1" less than your normal waist). Some
clients do tailor their skirts, if they corset a lot. I find that
gathered skirts work best for me as do skirts and dresses made of
lighter weight fabrics.
Q. How do I
disguise my corset underneath my daytime
clothing?
A.
Corsets are
not easily disguisable under clothing
because they are normally four layers
thick and contain double steel boning
around the corset, adding 1" of girth to
your waistline. In addition, the top and
bottom edges are somewhat thick
considering that binding (another layer
of doubled-over fabric) must be applied
to finish off the corset. Thus, some
wardrobe accommodation must be made to
reduce the risk of the corset showing
when worn underneath clothing.
For example, you may wear one or two
t-shirts, a slip, or a chemise/cami over
the corset, pull control top pantyhose
up over the bottom edge, wear your
shirts or blouses looser, avoid spandex
or tight lycra garments, and order a
fully custom corset produced by an
experienced, competent corsetmaker such
as those on the ROMANTASY team, and made
from at least eight separate
measurements. Such a custom corset will
contour around and snug up against your
torso and be less noticeable under
clothing (as opposed to one having poor
technical construction or readymade to
fit standard sizes that might pop out at
the top or bottom edge, or buckle and
wrinkle).
Two clever French clients of ours carved
foam rubber and attached it to a waist
band to wear under their male business
shirts to fill in the waistline gap
created by lacing down and achieving an
hourglass figure while corseting.
Perhaps you can do the same.
Another solution is to avoid daytime
corset wear and rather corset and waist
train while sleeping at night, but do
not do so until your corset is well
seasoned or you might permanently torque
it to one side!
Finally, if anyone sees or suspects you
wear a corset, or happens to hug you or
clap you on the back and feel the
stiffness of it, just mention that you
are wearing a back brace, that your back
has been bothering you of late.
Q. What condition is the skin in after
wearing the corset for long periods of time tightly-laced?
A.
This is a complex question but we can
suggest some answers. Basically, it depends. You will note wrinkling and
possibly early on in routine corset-wearing, note some itching around your
waist, especially after you remove the corset. That is normal. That is why
we recommend you rub with your hand or a child's brush, the skin when you
remove the corset. Watch for skin breakdown and do not use your nails to
scratch. The skin could get red or bruised, so simply stop corseting and use
common sense.
For lifestyle corseters, there can be serious skin breakdown (decubitus)
that only stopping corseting will completely heal. It's far better to avoid
these problems in the first place because after they occur, the skin becomes
extra sensitive and thin. and you can get skin breakdown easier. Some use
talc under the protector tube top, some don't like it. Cream after you
corset, especially udder cream, has been recommended. Dry climates and hot
water will irritate any skin itching and chafing.
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Q. What if any effect does the corset have on piercings that are under the corset? Do they become sore, or does the body
reject them, etc.?
A.
We have not heard of any such result.
However, your piercing should be completely healed before corseting.
Q. I was also wondering if the training belts
are good to start with while waiting for my corset to be made?
A.
The answer is not simple and there are some
caveats if you choose a
belt
for its quick delivery (in 2-4 weeks),
or your budget constraints (about ½ to
1/4 the cost of a custom underbust
corset). My BF wore a belt for two
months every day about six hours per
day, lost 23 pounds and 3 waistline
inches, then converted to a corset. In
two more months he lost 3.5" more and
lost 11 more pounds. Amazing.
However, the belt will tend to pooch out
the lower belly, so wear it with a
strong body briefer or girdle. I would
need to know your snug waist
measurements, then how wide you want
your belt-- 2.25", 2.5", 2.75", or 3"?
Which width you choose depends on your
height and distance of lowest rib to
pelvic bone, plus your tolerance for
some discomfort during the seasoning
process until your belt begins to bend
at the top and bottom edge and thus,
become more comfortable. We can help you
make that decision if you send us that
distance, and your height and weight.
Some like belts, some like corsets, it
truly depends on the individual. I
like both. I can breath easier in the belt but I go back and forth. One lady
experienced a more gaseous tummy with a belt but not with a corset (more even torso pressure).
Whether you prefer a corset or belt with which to train depends
entirely on your personal experience with each and your preferences.
Further considerations include: A corset (hourglass style) follows
your normal body curves, while the wide belt presses awkwardly in a
rigid fashion into the fleshy part of your torso between the lowest rib
and pelvic bone. I have many clients order both a belt and corset
at the same time, then use the belt to train until their corset arrives.
Afterwards they switch to the corset but alternate occasionally with a
belt, which can be worn over a dress (it is a bit chunky but rather
handsome even in plain black leather).
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Q. I only want to reduce my waistline by 1 ½".
Is a corset for me?
A.
That depends. Most folks can do this
temporarily and immediately with a first corset, and be comfy for hours.
That should be no struggle at all. Permanent waist reduction will also be
rather easy as 1.5" that is not much, depending on your body tone, shape,
and present measurements. With further details and measurements, we can give
you a more educated opinion on the matter.
Q. I work out and a lot of it strengthens my
abs, therefore, will doing my regular workout hinder the effectiveness of
the corset?
A.
Do you intend to corset and workout? It’s
not impossible, but likely will dirty your corset far more frequently than
normal. Depending on your workout, you may or will be developing muscles and
toning others. You do not want to develop the six-pack abs (rectus abdominus
muscle) but concentrate on toning the
oblique side waistline muscles The
pressure of regular corseting, plus
better eating habits and diet, and
oblique exercises, will serve to
encourage reduction of the waistline. In
addition, you will likely be losing fat
first, unless you follow the inadvisable
Atkins diet. Some lifestylers advise
waist-trainers to cut out all exercise
to intentionally weaken and eventually
atrophy waist and back muscles. Frankly, that
goes against common sense when it comes to overall health, and is possibly
dangerous. Most people who wear corsets do not want to have to rely 24/7 on
a corset when their back muscles atrophy without normal use and exercise.
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Q. Can you wear the corset to bed and sleep in
it all night?
A.
Yes, but only after you break it in
thoroughly and practice sleeping, otherwise it may permanently twist and
torque so that you cannot straighten it up even when you wear it during the
day. It will have to be a bit looser at night for most folks and it may take
you several tries before you can sleep all night long while corseted.
Q. In general how long will one corset last if
you wear it 5-6 days a week for long periods of time?
A.
The rule of thumb is: Wear a well-made custom corset in suitable fabric
for waist-training, 24/7 at a 4" reduction and it will wear out in 1-1.5
yrs. Other than that general rule, it is impossible to say with
certainty. The answer depends on the following factors, among others:
(1) how well you take care of your corset; (2) how little or much you
wash or dry clean it (wear it over our CorPro tube top to protect it
from body oils); (3) whether you season it properly when you first
receive it; (4) whether you rotate it with other corsets in your
wardrobe, thus reducing stress on any given corset; (5) how much you
lace down from your normal waistline and how long you wear it at that
level; (6) whether you tie the ribbons in front (that rubs the fabric)
or in back; (7) the nature and quality of the fabric both outer and
lining; (8) whether the corset has waist tape or not; (9) whether the
corset fabric is bonded, or the corset is interface; (10) the nature of
the thread and the seaming used; (11) the number of bone casings
(double, triple and quadruple bones laid side by side, or even one bone
on top of another, will strengthen the corset); and other.
Q. What is the difference between a department
store belt and your waist-training belt?
A.
There is a great deal of difference. If you
look carefully at the belt, you will see it is extra wide, from 2.25" to 3"
wide custom. It is extra thick as well, made of very strong lattigo leather for
sturdiness (two thicknesses), and nicely stitched four times. It has a
roller buckle and five or six grommets and is larger in diameter than usual
grommets in order for you to buckle it on more easily. It is not easy to
put the belt on, once you start reducing 2" more from your snug waist size,
the level where you should start waist training. You will need those larger
grommets.
The training belt will withstand a lot of pounds of pressure at the
waistline, likely to mount to 50-70 lbs. once you belt down 4" or more.
Thus, it is completely unlike any commercially available belt you could
possibly find in department stores. ROMANTASY designed this one specifically
for waist training. It works extremely well for many clients.
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Q. What is the difference between rubber
(as seen right, photo (c) by J. Vonier 1998)) ,
latex, and PVC (polyvinyl chloride) fabrics?
A.
PVC is a plastic fabric that comes in all
colors, including sometimes, amazing holographic. As far as I know, rubber
and latex are the same material. Both are made of rubber. Rubber is sometimes thicker for
a corset, latex lighter. I've never trusted latex although I know one corsetmaker who swears her gluing technique makes latex stand up to
tight-lacing. I cannot attest to that.
Mr. Garrod, for ROMANTASY, provided
superlative rubber corsets which he both stitched and glued using thicker
European rubber, but he never would guarantee a corset’s durability much
past five years in any case.
Rubber/latex will eventually deteriorate. PVC can crack over time. My
rubber and PVC corsets are doing fine; my two rubber corsets by Mr. Garrod
are now 10 yrs old, but dulling. You shine a rubber or latex corset with
Rubberall.
Sometimes PVC will crack at the waistline (where pressure is
most) and show the stitch marks a little bit. Neither fabric is perfect
for a tight-lacing long-lasting corset, but of course, almost any corset
style can be made in these fabrics, if you are willing to accept the
limitations and knowledge it won't last as long as a fabric corset, if
you tight-lace.
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Q. How do I order?
It's easy to order.
- First (for corsets), view our
custom
consignment corsets for immediate sale, in case you don't want a custom
corset. For custom corsets, view our
best
styles, fabric choices, and
general prices and design options appearing at the bottom of each corset
maker's page. For other products, visit our
Shopping
Cart.
- Second, if you need advice or a final
corset price, don't hesitate to email us at:
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- Third, when you have decided on your corset
style, maker, and fabric, send us your measurements from
this
page We'll get back to you with a final price and approximate delivery
date. - Fourth, review our
terms
and conditions of sales.
- Fifth, (1) visit our handy
Shopping Cart
to order, or (2)
email us. We'll take the proper one-half deposit plus a deposit on
shipping, then send confirming paperwork to your snailmail address.
- Q. Don't corsets hurt?
A.
Custom corsets don't hurt because the
pattern is drafted to fit your
individual body's hills and valleys;
ready-made corsets may hurt since they
are made from standardized patterns.
Also, you can open up any corset at the
back lacings to provide a more
comfortable fit.
And, of course,
you will go about this in a common-sense
kind of way, that is, seasoning your
corset slowly and gradually wearing it
longer at a looser level before you lace
tighter, in order to accustom your body
to restriction and protect the integrity
of your fine corset, right? We certainly
hope so!
Q. How do ROMANTASY's corsets differ from others on the
web?
A.
They differ because we are a corset purveyor and designer who works
with you to choose the precise style, design and corset maker to suit your
individual needs, desires and budget: we have something for everyone and
the widest variety of styles to offer on the web. We also offer the
world's finest tight-lacing waist-training corsets.
Q. I've found some of your styles on other websites. Why
should I buy from you?
A.
That particular style may not be the best style for you.
Other corset makers and websites offer you limited style and option
selections, price points, resulting body silhouettes once you
corset, and only one or two basic construction techniques or
fabrics. ROMANTASY has no particular interest in pushing you to
purchase from one particular corset maker, or one particular style
that does not suit the great majority your individual needs and
which may not work best on your body or for your shape or figure
issue. In addition, our owner Ann, is a corset expert: as of early
2007, she owns over 70 fully-custom corsets by her makers and by
others around the world, and thus, knows her product intimately. In
addition, she has worked with most of her corset makers on her team
for at least six or more years, plus she has been in the specialized
custom corset business since 1990, an amazing length and depth of
experience she can bring to guide you properly.
Q. Does price really matter (see photo of
corset made too large at bottom edge)?
A.
Yes and no.
If you buy the cheapest custom corset
you can find, it may not be made up to
standards in the profession if the maker
is new and inexperienced. You may even
receive misleading advice, such as one
person who had been told by another
business that she was ordering "custom,"
when all she was actually getting was a
readymade corset based solely on her
waist size which was the sole
measurement that had been requested!
More experienced makers as those at
ROMANTASY have perfected their designs,
fitting and construction techniques, and
constructed at least 50 fully-custom
corsets and more like 200 and more per
style!, and for this expertise you will
likely pay more--and rightly so! Also,
ROMANTASY provides customer service and
support AFTER your initial
purchase--something many other
corsetmakers will not provide. We help
you maintain your corset over time at
cost, by replacing bones or busks you
may break, replace edging, and other.
Please read this interesting
viewpoint about price vs. quality.
Q. Why do custom corsets take so long to make (from two
to eight months)?
A.
Because they are so popular, because they are made custom or one-up,
and because many makers are home businesses, not major manufacturers. One
of ROMANTASY's famous corset makers working primarily alone, has 40-50
corsets in production at any one time. You must learn to wait patiently
for quality custom corsets. We ran across a corsetmaker on the web in
spring, 2007 who advertised that she was
not even accepting orders until February
of the following year!
Q. Do you have discrete mailing labels?
A.
Yes. We respect your privacy above all; just tell us your mailing
preference.
Q. Do you serve men?
A.
With pleasure as with any serious customer. Over 60% of our business
orders are placed by men. Therefore we know the special measurement and
fit issues for the male body. However, ROMANTASY is not a place to merely
discuss fantasy corseting or cross-dressing as our interest is in purveying
quality corsetry.
Q. Should I come to be measured in person?
A. It depends. Ann has measured and read the measurements of
over 7000 customers since starting the business in 1990. She can
generally tell if you have made an error in your measurements and
advise you to re-measure. This is especially true if you send
digital (or snapshots) or your torso from a front, side, and back
view. These are of course, confidential and used only to view your
torso shape and if you have positioned the waistline ribbon in a
correct position. If you come to San Francisco, you are welcome to
make a private
measuring appointment.
For overbust styles this is desirable; for underbust styles this is
not necessary, but always enjoyable.
Q. What is the
best style
for me?
A.
Without knowing more that is impossible to answer. Please read this
page and get back to us with your answers.
Q. I've heard about waist training. Can I do it myself?
A.
Yes and no. It is very important that you have a well-fitting sturdy
underbust hourglass corset that is seasoned, and then attend to proper
nutrition, diet, exercise and a gradual lacing down process in order to
avoid damaging the corset or your body. It is best to be sure you understand
the proper and moderate steps needed to "train" your waist down to a temporary
or permanent waist reduction. You might consider enrolling in ROMANTASY's
three-month Waist-Training Coaching
Program, or purchase our unique 300 page book on waist-training,
"Corset Magic: A Fun Guide to Trim Your
Waist and Figure."
Q. What style corset do I need to waist train?
A.
Our recommendation is a custom underbust hourglass
with a front busk closure, because it follows the natural curves of
the human body, is easier to close down than a longer overbust
corset, and is more convenient to put on and remove. You may choose
either the high-hipped Victorian, or the longline Edwardian
underbust style.
Q. Can I eat a normal meal while wearing a
corset?
Most likely, not. Most people find when they
start corseting and for some time later, especially if you lace down
four or more inches, that you eat about half as much, and at
one-half the speed. It takes some time to get used to eating a meal
while corseted. You should corset first, then eat. If you eat first,
you will find it difficult to lace down. Corseting encourages
healthy eating habits including reducing fats, sugar, heavy protein,
coffee and alcohol, because you might tend to get heartburn. It's
also important to drink lots of water and choose cooked, high fiber
foods if you routinely wear a corset. Our
Corset Magic book contains lots of great nutritional
information for those in serious corset waist-training.
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Q. I've been wearing my
corset full-time for some months, and
note that a bone has poked through the
bottom edge in front. Can you repair it
for me? I also notice that the
edges of the shoelace lacing cord has
slightly frayed. What does this mean
regarding quality?
A. I'm not too sure what you mean by "full time wear." The
rule of thumb is, that a well-made corset as we provide, will wear out
in about one year--if you wear it at a 4" reduction every day about 23
hrs per day. Most of our clients will not be doing that, of course.
However, the more days you wear your corset, and the longer hours each
day, the more stress will be placed on the garment, which is not
indestructible. In addition, the tighter you lace a corset and the
longer hours you wear it, the more the bones will begin to push down and
up inside each bone casing, since the fabric will tend to want to move
or "bunch" a little bit toward the waistline. That is quite natural to
expect, sooner or later, if you have been tight-lacing and/or seriously
waist training for hours on hours and days and days on end.
That one bone pushed out of one casing of your corset is not all that
unusual for a well-made, custom corset, when you are wearing it every
day for 6 to 12 hours of more, for months on end. From the rather severe
or substantial bending of the bones at your waistline, we can see that
you have well seasoned the corset by now and most likely are lacing down
3-4" or more, per day for long hours of wear.
Please note that there is a judgment call to be made by every
corsetmaker when they pattern and construct a corset, as to how long to
make the bones. If they make them too long, they will soon poke out. If
they make them too short, the bottom trim of the corset, even the bottom
edge, will tend to turn up and wrinkle. Neither is a good result,
however some compromise must be made. Your corset maker has many years
in this business and has made hundreds and hundreds of corsets. We would
put each Romantasy corsetiere up against anyone exercising this
present-day art/trade, so you need not think that this indicates any
professional inferiority, or unexpected or major problem.
As for the silk brocade fabric you chose, we use it for about 50% of the
corsets we produce made by any of our team members. It is very sturdy,
although no one can say that a brocade or satin is more sturdy than
cotton twill. Cotton twill is the best bar none, and that was used to
line your corset. Some clients will choose cotton twill on both sides of
a training corset if they know they are going to wear it every day for
long hours at very tight levels. Other clients prefer the lovely look
and feel, colors and patterns of silk.
ROMANTASY never produces
corsets in the lighter weight silk that
is out there, that we've seen other
corsets made of. We provide only the
better quality silk that in our
experience, stands up rather well to
lacing and wear. However, no fabric is
indestructible, except perhaps, Kevlar.
One option for repair is for us to
simply over-stitch the fabric at
insignificant charge, and "remake" it to
hold the bone in. This will likely
secure the bones for quite a number of
more months of wear, however, we cannot
guess at that. The other, more secure
option available now or later if the
bone pokes through again, is to remove
trim, take out the two matching bones,
find a pre-made shorter appropriate
length, or even cut the bones down, tip
them in plastic, reinsert then and resew
on the trim. Inasmuch as there appears
to be no damage to your bone casings
that falls outside the professional
quality standards in the corsetmaking
field, there would be a reasonable
charge for that. Kindly let us know your
preference.
As for the lacing
cord, each maker chooses the kind of
lacing she desires to use. One maker
uses rolled satin cording, another
delivers with 5/8" ribbon, and your
maker uses a shoe lace. We stock yards
of black and white shoe lace, and can
sell you a length at $1 per yard plus $4
shipping (you need at least 1 yard per 3
grommets). We find that all three types
of lacing are equally strong and except
in rare cases, provide no problems.
Since all ROMANTASY corsetieres use
double-sided grommets that are smooth
both front and back, I am at a loss to
know why you are experiencing frayed
cording. Are you tying off your lacing
cord in front, rather than at the
waistline in back as we recommend in our
written instructions sent with your
corset? Are you wearing rougher
cotton-fiber over-clothing that might be
rubbing your cording? Has one of the
grommets come loose so that the rough
edge might be rubbing against your cord?
Without further information I cannot
answer your question about your cord
fraying However, changing your cord to
a new one (with lacing methods explored
on our web page and in the instructions
we sent you) is a simple, and
inexpensive matter for sure. Over time
and wear on all corsets, this may eventually
have to be done, although personally I
have never done it for other than
aesthetic reasons!
Thank you for writing and we hope our
letter fully explains these matters to
you. We await your reply and
preferences.
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Q. I have
scoliosis with a 35 degree spine
curvature. Could a corset help?
A.
Vertebral bracing used to be the medical
treatment of choice for scoliosis, not
surgery. Now we live in a want-it-now
kind of society without patience to wear
a corset brace for the long hours and
years it takes to make change in a
curved spine.
If you merely desire some back support
and stabilization I would imagine a
custom corset would work for you.
Certainly it fits better under clothing
and is more comfy than a bulky medical
corset: I know, as I wore a medical
corset from time to time for back
spasms; now I wear my lovely custom
corset to prevent and to relieve spasms
for a few days before going back to my
physical therapy/exercise program to
keep my back strong and healthy.
Since I am not a doctor, I cannot truly
answer your question. I do suggest
strongly that you discuss your interest
in corsetry with your physician. My
guess is, wearing a corset in a moderate
way would not hurt you and would stand
some chance, maybe even a good chance,
of helping.
Please also realize that some physicians
prefer to keep health-related
information and supplies remotely
"medical" inside the medical
establishment. Furthermore, sometimes
physicians don't have modern info on how
well modern day corsetry fits and how
comfortable it can feel, thus they may
be prejudiced without basis against the
custom fashion corset.
I wish I had a definitive answer for
you. The most I can say is if you decide
on Romantasy as your preferred
corsetiere, and we hope you do!, just
know that since 1990 we have served
several clients with scoliosis and a man
with severe palsy. Know also that when
you order, you must measure your body in
two halves. Print our measurement form
out and write at top of one: "from my
eyes looking outward, right side" and
"from my eyes looking outward left
side."
That way your chosen corsetiere will
decide if she needs to pattern each side
separately for you. Still, we cannot
guarantee a corset won't torque a bit.
You can always pull the corset in the
opposite direction to straighten it up
as best you can.
In the end, it could be that only trying
a corset will give you the facts that
you need to decide if these will work
for you or not. It will require some
investment of funds to make that kind of
real-life trial, but I would guess that
you as have I, occasionally spent money
on things that just don't work out,
despite you having every confidence that
they will.
I don't want to discourage you as I
truly believe these garments are magical
and wonderful for everybody! I do
however want to be cautious on your own
behalf.
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Q. You say
that three torso measurements in
particular are crucial ones to ensure a
good fit on a custom corset. Can you
assist me understand why and how to
proceed?
A.
Those measurements are: (1) sidefront
of your body, waist to top edge of
corset (number 7 on our measurement
chart graphic), (2) center front of your
body, waist to top edge of corset (not
shown on our graphic), and (3) center
front of your body, waist to bottom edge
of corset (number 9 on our measurement
chart graphic).
First, as to the sidefront of your body,
if you make this too high or tall, and
since the corset naturally tends to rise
a bit during hours of wear, the top edge
of the corset may or will push up into
your lower chest tissue on a man, or
into bosom tissue on a lady. On men
crossdressers, the top edge may or will
push up into the bra and silicon
inserts, and thus artificially elevate
the bosom. This will force you to lean
backwards when wearing the corset, or it
will or might dig into flesh and
possibly be uncomfortable. How much it
will do all of the above depends a lot
on the size of the bosom or chest, how
long you wear the corset at one time,
how new it is, and how tall the height
is.
If this measurement is perfect, the top
corset edge vertically ends at, and the
corset remains on, the vertical torso
and does not go over a lady's bra
underwire or a man's chest tissue swell.
If this measurement is too low there is
little negative effect for a lady,
however for a man the chest musculature
or ribs are typically larger than a
lady's and both may tend to pop out and
be exaggerated. Manly men may desire
this effect, thus some corsetieres (not
Romantasy) suggest that only shorter or
waist cincher type corsets should be
ordered. Crossdressers typically do not
prefer a short corset, since it will
tend to emphasize the "superman" manly
rib shape, not tame the rib cage, and
not push it in a bit creating the narrow
torso shape more typical of a female.
Second, as to the center front waist to
top, this measurement is not shown on
our graphic because usually clients
defer to us for that. If they defer, our
choice is typically one inch taller than
measurement number 7. Why? Because 1"
seems to us to be a measurement that
most ladies, crossdressers and manly men
want. It results in a gentle rise in the
center of the corset, or a quasi-point.
However, if this measurement exceeds
more than 1" above the sidefront
vertical number 7 measurement, a sharp
point starts to appear, and emphasizes
the breast shape more like a lady. Thus,
a manly man might not want a sharp point
or high rise center more than 1" above
the number 7 measurement.
Third, the center front waist to bottom
of corset is challenging to get right.
If too long, the bottom edge of your
corset may push into your "privates" and
make it difficult to sit! If too short
then your tummy flesh may tend to squish
out in an unsightly way. Our
instructions request that you take this
measurement several times both sitting
and standing, and use a stiffer ruler
(not flimsy tape measure) to push in the
tummy the same way boning and front busk
will do in a final corset, and then take
the best average. There is no set rule
as to what measurement is too long or
too short, since how flesh moves is
individual per client and difficult to
predict with precision.
Considering the above three
measurements, and indeed all
measurements requested for custom work,
the best way to proceed is to actually
try on a sample corset (especially made
by your chosen ROMANTASY team member)
and come up with final measurements in
that manner, carefully reporting not
only your natural body measurements, but
also carefully observing and reporting
measurements taken from what actually
happens to your body.
Barring your ability to personally try
on a corset before ordering, following
our measurement instructions to a "T"
and sending us the confidential torso
photos we request (we will get back to
you with questions if we see anything
amiss), will usually result in a
well-fitting corset, even when ordered
long-distance.
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Q. As I
lace my new corset on, the bottom edge
in front kind of “pops” out away from my
body. I wanted to know if this is normal
during the breaking in period?
A.
Yes and no.
There are at least four primary reasons
that this issue might surface as you
wear your corset. First, each
corsetmaker (on our Romantasy team and
out there on the web) chooses different
strengths of fabric, interfacing and
boning, and has different patterning and
construction preferences that result in
more of a straight-front corset (typical
of the Edwardian corset in the early
1990s), or more of a
curved-all-around-the-body shape
(typical of the classic Victorian corset
in the late 1800s). Second, the corset
style chosen also results in different
body curvature. Third, the tighter you
lace, the more you move waistline flesh
in, up and down. Thus over time if you
don't lose weight, you will increase the
flesh below your waistline as you lace
tighter. Fourth, full-figure clients may
note this issue sooner than slim figure
clients.
Specifically toning the transverse
muscle (across the lower belly) will
effectively address this issue. You
might consider Chapter 8 from our Corset
Magic book, our exercise chapter that
addresses effective exercises to tone
the transverse ($15). Seasoning your corset may also help
reduce its initial stiffness as fabric
eases and boning molds to your body.
Also you will be able to draw the bottom
back edge closer together over time,
pulling the front busk inward and moving
the tummy flesh inward as well.
There are a few other tips we provide
our clients on how to address this issue
during the seasoning process, including
wearing a body briefer to push the lower
busk edge in closer to the body
underneath clothing.
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